56. [WISE WOMAN] WITH AUTHOR LYNSI EASTBURN OF HYPNOFERTILITY - PINK STARLIGHT SPIRIT BABIES, FERTILITY & THE 3 KEYS: MEDITATE, LISTEN, TRUST

As the creator of HypnoFertility, Lynsi is the world’s established expert in the field of hypnosis to promote fertility. 

The author of three books on the subject, Lynsi personally receives patient referrals from several of the top fertility clinics in the United States. Patients are referred to her when other practitioners have run out of options, when medical treatments or repeated protocols that should work do not.

Her innovative style effectively blends the worlds of science and spirit. Lynsi combines her insights and intuitions with a biopsychosocial approach to hypnotherapy. 

She has found that biological, psychological, and social factors make up the whole person; therefore, all must be considered to effectively support each one. Lynsi supports a holistic, inclusive integration of science and spirit because she understands they are not mutually exclusive. 

Too much emphasis on one or the other can result in varying levels of imbalance which can, in turn, exacerbate the struggles of infertility. Her comprehensive background contributes to her inspired insights and has enabled her to become finely tuned in the practice of subconscious communication and mind-body balancing.

Lynsi has been featured in national and international media including television news, talk shows, podcasts, radio and print, and her work is the basis of ongoing research.

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Emily: Welcome Lindsay to the podcast. I was really, really excited to see when your team reached out for an interview about my goodness what you do. I'm gonna let you put it into words because it covers a vast range and you know, here, here on Soul Evolution, this is a place where women come to share their embodied knowledge.

This is a place where women come to hear beautiful, natural, physiological birth stories and women from conception all the way up through postpartum and all of, like, the big, deep women's work.

So, I mean, I definitely resonate with everything I've read about you, but if you would please give yourself a little introduction.

Lynsi: Yeah, absolutely. Emily, thank you so much for having me here. I love the name of your podcast and I'm so. I'm so thrilled to be here. I, Yes, I mostly work.

I work all the way through pre pregnancy, through birth, but mostly the emphasis is on fertility.

And what's happened with that is it initially started with hypnosis, and I ended up helping women to get pregnant with hypnosis. And what would. What had happened a lot of times was they'd been told they had a less than 1% chance of ever having a baby.

And that was, you know, it was close to 25 years ago. So the technology was a lot different then, and it's evolved quite a bit, but it was still really, really interesting because as I started working with them, babies started showing up and sometimes naturally, sometimes, you know, at that time, a lot of the clinics would say, you're just not a candidate for ivf.

And so suddenly they became a candidate or another. Another clinic would take them. So. So that was kind of the background of where I ended up on this baby route, if you will.

But also part of that was spare babies. So I've always been tuned into the energetic aspect, if you want to. You know, I like call it the energetic aspect because we all have an energetic part of us, and some of us are here on earth in body, but we still have an energetic piece.

And then our babies, until they do come through, are in energetic form or in the ethereal realm. But I've always been tuned into them, and that just became more prominent in the work that I was doing.

But part of what really clued me in was women would come to me and say, I've been told that I'll never get pregnant, that I can't have a baby, to go home and figure out my life as a childless mother or couple or childless woman.

But I feel like there's a baby there. I know there's a baby there. And that's where I would always say, oh, absolutely, let's. Let's do what we need to do to help bring that baby through.

So that's the key in a nutshell.

Emily: That's the key, isn't it, exactly Believing them?

Lynsi: Yes, absolutely. And, you know, the. The medical realm can be so out of balance. Masculine energy.

I know, you know a lot about that whole inner and divine masculine, feminine.

And I really found that There was, you know, I'm not anti Western medicine at all, but it can be very aggressive and invasive and absolute. You know, there's a lot of coming at things from a sense of being absolute and there's just no, no such thing as absolute.

Emily: No such thing as absolute. You know, I would really love if you wanted to talk a little bit because I was in prep for this, I listened to one of your interviews that you did and you were just going into such beautiful detail about the missing link, about what you do being the missing link and you know, the divine and the spirituality in fertility and just the receptivity.

I mean as you're talking about, you know, our western medicine is just, it's so masculine. But how like it's all about embodying that receptivity and that is like bringing in these babies to these women who had it in their minds like I'm infertile.

But yeah, I would just love if you could speak to that a little bit.

Lynsi: Oh my gosh, yes, absolutely.

Where to start?

Yes, well, we know and it's really apparent right now how out of balance masculine energy is and that is shifting and it's, it's very powerful right now. And we saw it in little areas like you know, microcosm reflected now in the macrocosm or vice versa.

So that is a part of it.

A lot of the women that I work with are, and they're, you know, self proclaimed or, or you know, self defined type A personalities and that's going to be your masculine energy.

But in a lot of cases that's out of balance.

So that need to, you know, I saw it in the birthing world a lot too. I did hypnobirthing. I, I work with hypnosis birth, not hypnobirthing per se, but when I did do that, I did go to, you know, hospitals from time to time, a couple of home births and see how things, how women who were there to support the birth in some cases were harsher than, than the men that were there because there was this whole struggle to somehow come out with, you know, this balance in that world.

And so that's shifting and changing in the world in general as well as within the fertility and birthing realm.

So the receptivity women that I work with tend to be the type that can get things done. So I like to call them achievers rather than type A personality, which is not a bad thing.

But you get the idea. Achievers, doers. You put your mind to something, you're going to get it Done.

They approach fertility that way. I'm going to have a baby. I'm going to stop, you know, birth control. I'm going to do xyz. I will have a baby by March, you know, and then that doesn't always happen.

25% of infertility diagnoses is unexplained.

So that I found fascinating early on, because to me, that said, oh, subconscious, that said, you know, this is what hypnosis is, you know, absolutely made for, basically.

So what would happen is they would go in, they would get the workup.

Unfortunately, when you go in, there's usually something that comes up and they're look, you know, there's trying to find a reason, right? And then there's a hypnosis that goes on.

Because ideally, you're not expecting any kind of diagnosis. You're not expecting something, and then you get something, or. Or it's like, well, we don't know. It's unexplained. Which a lot of times people feel like at least if there's a diagnosis, they know what to do.

And instead they get this whole unexplained thing, which when I used to hear about that, I would. I would be thrilled because I'd be like, okay, yep, unexplained, that's. That's subconscious mind.

That's some kind of emotional block or subconscious block. We couldn't work with that.

So that was part of the work that I initially, initially had to do with women was to help with that shift from, I'm intelligent, I can get things done, I can multitask, you know, I achieve what I put my mind to.

But you can't force a baby. So I used to say can't, you know, left brain a baby. I used to say that quite a bit. And that's where the receptivity comes in.

So that's where it's a matter of balancing out the energies. So men, women, it's not about that. It's about inner, divine, masculine, you know, sacred feminine, divine feminine, sacred masculine, and expressing those and balancing those out within so well.

Emily: Because, like, I'm just so curious. I've never been hypnotized that I know of. And so much of the work that I do with women in preparation for birth is so much of the reprogramming of their subconscious mind.

We don't do it in a hypnotic state, but I do lead and guide a lot of meditations. We have a lot of talking, journal prompts, that sort of thing. But I would really love for you as the Expert on this to like dive in a little bit deeper into like what the subconscious mind is and how malleable it is and how just how ridiculously important it is to address this in our, like our everyday life.

Lynsi: Well, absolutely. The subconscious is the bigger part of the mind. So conscious mind, that's often associated with the ego, ego not being, you know, a bad thing, like that guy's got a big ego.

But ego being that, you know, sort of self part of us that navigates the world, the conscious world or the, you know, material world more so. Whereas the subconscious mind is broader.

It is not, you know, it takes in everything. So whatever we're doing, experiencing the subconscious mind is recording it. We can't necessarily go in and find it right away because it's just massive.

You know, everything that we experience is recorded there. And the subconscious mind is not thinking. It is non thinking. It's not rational, it's not logical, it's emotional. And the language of the subconscious is emotion and it is imagination and it is metaphor, you know, archetypes, all of that the subconscious responds to.

Whereas the conscious mind is your. That's the part that you and I are talking to each other consciously. Although we're definitely communicating subconsciously at the same time. But what we're aware of is this conscious communication, the questions or the answers or that kind of thing.

But if your conscious mind is not on the same page as your subconscious, your conscious mind will lose. The subconscious mind is, is more powerful.

Emily: Say that again. Say that again.

Lynsi: If your conscious mind and your subconscious mind are in conflict, your conscious mind's going to lose.

If you consciously want a baby, but your subconscious mind is, you know, in some way, there's a block there. That's what's going to, that's what's going to win. Okay. Because the subconscious mind, well, we, first off, we.

It's subconscious, so we're not necessarily aware that something's there or we might suspect, but we don't know for sure. But because the subconscious mind is not logical.

So a lot of blocks I've seen with women having difficulty getting pregnant or staying pregnant, it could be from something to do with an abortion or miscarriage in the past.

But it also could be going through something with a friend or family member. But it could also be that they were the oldest of 10 children and had to raise the little ones.

There's so many things. But what happens is the subconscious is also very protective.

So but because it's not logical, it will protect you in ways that may not be so, you know, helpful. Oh, well, we won't have to raise nine children because we just won't have any.

We just won't get pregnant. And then there will be a block there that even though, you know you're not going to have nine children or you don't want nine children, or you're not going to be repeating this, something that's gone on, you know, in your past or in your childhood, the subconscious, you can't reason with it.

So we have to, we have to impact the subconscious mind. There's different ways to do that. Hypnosis is a really effective way to do it pretty quickly.

Emily: And speaking to that effective. I really also was interested in you just talking a little bit about the research that you've participated in because I am both like really into the spiritual and I'm really into being a nerd.

Science and soul. Let's marry them up.

Lynsi: Oh, absolutely. You know, and it's really interesting too, because that is shifting in the fertility world where it used to be. You know, these fertility clinics were so regimented. They were so Western medicine.

They were so, like, if anyone said, well, you know, I want to do some acupuncture, I want to do, you know, whatever, and they'd say, well, if you want to waste your money, go right ahead.

You know, it won't hurt you. But now they're providing access to that in so many cases or having it right on site.

So that's really huge. And I've written three books on this work. And the first one, I ended up doing a second edition to it because everything had changed so much.

And it was a reproductive endocrinologist that wrote the foreword to the second book, or the first book, sorry, the second edition.

And that one is a little bit more toward the science, the art and science of hypnosis. Okay. And then the third one is much more toward the spiritual. And I did a second edition with that one.

Also ended up with a reproductive endocrinologist, OB gyn, fertility doctor in active practice writing the four forward for that. So that I just wanted to throw that out there because that changes a lot.

When, at first, you know, when I first got into this, people, you know, when my clients would tell the doctors and the doctors would sort of face, palm or. Yeah, yeah, yes.

And then eventually when, when they kept seeing things happening and, and they were like, okay, we have no explanation, so go see her. You know. But the, yeah, the scientific piece, I wanted to do a research study and the tit was hypnosis as a valuable.

What Was it viable? Sorry, I can't think of the name of my own study as a viable tool for helping with infertility.

And it was really fascinating. I went over 15 years worth of clients, so this is back in 2016. So I went back over the past 15 years or so of clients and I reviewed cases, you know, so I did the, you know, random selection, but then I reviewed the cases to see, looking for all sorts of different things to see what I would come up with.

In fact, I could make probably 20 research studies out of the one that I did because I gathered so much information. But it was, you know, needed to narrow it down.

One of the things I found with it was 100%. And you don't usually see hundreds when it comes to, you know, some type of study or academics. A hundred percent of my clients had said that they noticed a night and day or they noticed incredible change from the hypnosis either as soon as they opened their eyes at the first session or coming back in the second session.

And what I did, the way I selected my people too, is I went from live birth backward because so often the statistics that my clients are dealing with come from the medical world, the fertility clinics and so their counting, you know, that, that positive pregnancy test and then no further than that.

So I wanted to go live birth backward because I wanted just to see, you know, what happened and how that ended up on the other side with baby.

Emily: Yeah, yeah.

Lynsi: So, yeah, so that was fascinating to me. It was something like 88% of my clients were self proclaimed type A personalities right from the get go. That was one of the things that I noticed and at that time, so this would have been between like 2000 and 2015, these clients.

And that has shifted and changed a lot over the years as well.

Part of me wonders if it's because hypnosis and other complementary medicines, if you want to call them that, are more accepted now. People are more aware of them. And so maybe people are pursuing them before they get too far into the difficulties that can happen.

Because a lot of times early on I was, I was working with people who had been, you know, struggling with this for a long time.

Emily: Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's definitely becoming a little more mainstream. And I know that you've done a lot of work to help with that, your work. And I think what you had said something you had a goal of like achieving a critical mass of folks that were more aware of hypnobirthing or I mean, hypno fertility.

Lynsi: Yeah, definitely. And you know, both for that matter. But hypnobirthing, it took off because it was on Dateline back in about 1990 or 92. It's up around there.

That was amazing. I mean, if you can see that episode, you can see that on YouTube is so, it's almost funny because the, the, the anchor, the interviewer, she thinks it's the most ridiculous thing and she does not hide that.

And oh. So think, you know, I haven't watched it off the. And it turns out beautifully. Okay. Oh my gosh, it's amazing. And of course they do everything possible to cut it so that you've got all the drama you could possibly have, but it's still.

Oh my gosh, it turns out beautifully.

Yeah. So that was. So that really helped with the hypno birthing because with the birth hypnosis it was really popular in the 40s and but it was very again, masculine or male masculine energy focused.

It was like, we're going to numb you with hypnosis because you can use hypno anesthesia. We're going to numb you from, you know, the top of the breasts to about the mid thigh and then we're going, you're going to have your baby.

So it was still focused on that.

Emily: Whereas I didn't even know that. Yeah, that does not resonate at all with me. In fact, I don't, I don't actually know a whole lot about hypnobirthing. To, to me, what I've seen just in my practice and in talking with women is that they come, they did the hypnobirthing and then they're disappointed that they didn't have, they didn't breathe their baby out, that they weren't in this state of like.

And I'm like, listen, birth is wild. Birth is absolutely wild. But we do get to choose. Like, we definitely have a choice as to which road we're going to take but like to then just come out of their birth with like shame that they didn't have this like beautiful, quiet, like peaceful birth.

I'm like, yeah, not. That's, that's not what birth really is.

No.

Lynsi: And, and yeah, and I will say, I mean that's to do with the practitioners and I had a lot of problems with hypnobirthing. There's so many versions of it, you know now in fact, the one that was on Dateline wasn't the, the so called hypnobirthing, which I can't really describe it anymore because there's just so much of it and people tend to use it as a generic term, but it was actually a.

An ob GYN who offered hypnosis to his clients or his patients if they wanted to. And then what happened was. I guess my understanding of it is that, of course, it aired on Dateline.

His phone, you know, blew up. He didn't. He's like, I don't do this. I'm not a hypnotist. Like, I. This is not my thing. Okay? I don't want to do this as a.

You know, it's just an offering. And hypnobirthing.com was available, and boom, Dateline just funneled everybody that way. So that's kind of how that happened.

And things were, again, that was sort of just coming into being at that time. It's really early on. But one of the issues is the practitioner, because.

So I come at this differently. I'm a hypnotherapist. I'm trained in hypnosis, clinical hypnosis, therapeutic hypnosis, whatever you want to call it.

And I believe in using that. And there's very powerful techniques that we have in hypnosis that are beyond like, a guided meditation or just doing some affirmations. But what was happening in a lot of cases, and I would call myself doing damage control, it would depend who was.

Who was conducting it and what their background was or what they were bringing to it. And a lot of times it was moms who had a birth and enjoyed it and wanted to help, but really didn't have any other information.

So we're basically going through a program, you know, page by page.

And. And then there was this idea. There's videos of this really quiet birth, and there's no, you know, great. That can totally happen. I mean, women give birth. Birth in comas.

I mean, you know, it's not like we have to be consciously participating, so to speak.

But the issue was not speaking to all of the wide variety of possibilities with birth. Every single birth is unique, you know, every single one from, you know, every woman on the planet to every woman's babies, each one of her birthday there.

Emily: The variability is the exact number of mothers and babies that there are in the world. That is the variability of birth.

Lynsi: That's exactly. Yeah, that's. That's perfect. That's the perfect way to express that. And so what I also found was people who were looking for natural, vaginal, unmedicated birth would go to hypnobirth some form of it.

And then as hypnobirthing got to be more accepted in the hospitals, the hypnosis Started to disappear.

And so then people were calling themselves various birth assistants or I forget what they changed it to. They weren't doulas, but it was something similar.

Yeah, I forget there was a word for it. But anyway, that sort of idea.

And, but then there was all of this instruction about nutrition and instruction about things that didn't have to do with hypnosis. So there was a lot of dilution in the hypnosis itself and that is not helpful.

So we then were having this sort of, let's focus more on what would be, is, you know, acceptable, if you will. I say that in air quotes for the western medicine.

And then also, you know, and let's get away from the word hypnosis. But the problem is it's hypno birth. It's focused on hypnosis. Right. Or it should be. And so a lot of the people who are practicing are not hypnotherapists, are not trained in hypnosis.

So they don't know other than reading something or sort of, you know, as you would with a guided meditation sweat, they're relying. And that's, that's the big difference. And nothing personal to anyone who's trained in hypnobirthing.

It just is, it just is what it is. And it wasn't designed to work with anyone who wanted anything but natural, vaginal, you know, unma, unmedicated birth.

That, that was really the design. And then a lot of the folks that would be the practitioners, you know, wouldn't even consider anything outside of that or any variables. It was like, this is how it happens, this is what you do.

And then there was, there was definitely that shame. There was definitely issues with postpartum because the birth didn't go it as wanted, expected, as laid out in the 20 page, you know, birthing plan.

And that, that was just devastating.

Emily: Yeah, I know. Yeah. I'm sure coming from your perspective, you have, you have some interesting thoughts around the way it's kind of been diluted. I, you know, again, I have never been hypnotized, but I am very like interested and curious about our subconscious mind and ways that we can do work with that because it's, it's so obvious and so apparent that it is truly running the show.

Yeah. Kind of to switch gears a little bit because I know that you also have this whole other side to what you do and that is with the spirit babies.

And again, I kind of would love to keep it.

Well, first of all, I would like to know a little bit more about your history and the way that you came into this experience of being aware of these presence, like maybe some things in your childhood, like how was it that, how was it for you claiming the fact that you are in contact and communication and have awareness of these spirit babies, like being a medium, understanding that because you know that's.

Yeah, it comes with a stigma. Right. And oh sure, some people just completely like tune out when you say the word spirit baby, let alone like giving them names. Pink Starlight.

So I would really love to hear a little bit about your journey.

Lynsi: Right.

Emily: And yeah, just bring it into the embodied experience that you've had.

Lynsi: You could, you can hear, you can tell with me like where it goes from this whole one side that is scientific. You know, I won't say medical because I'm not medically trained, but that whole piece and then the whole spiritual aspect, which is, and that's actually the part I like better.

I really enjoy that as a child. So I'm an intuitive empath. And it was always very empathic as a child. I was always this little counselor. And I remember, I remember being seven years old and my babysitter who was an adult, you know, she had kids telling me her marital problems and you know, the other kids are playing and I'm sitting on the front steps with her and she's telling me all of these problems.

And you know, my, I had a lot of older cousins, same thing with them.

And I was also really concerned that for whatever reason, I was really concerned and it wasn't a personal firsthand experience, but that someone who really truly wanted and would love a baby couldn't have one.

So I didn't see that happen in anyone right around me, but it was really a concern.

And so when I was nine years old, I've told this story so many times, but I was sitting in the backseat of my, of my parents car and the announcement came on the radio that the first test tube baby, what they called her at the time, had been born in England.

And I just like, you know, sat up straight like, let me hear this. And I was so relieved. Oh, thank goodness. No woman who really wants a baby now will ever not be able to have one.

So it wasn't quite that cut and dried, but I felt so much relief about that. It was always, always a concern for me.

So that's, yeah, that's kind of some of the earlier especially baby related.

I always was about babies. I was always about dolls. I was babysitting as soon as I could, as soon as I was old enough to do it. I had my little babysitting business when I was 14.

I had four regular clients. I was booked every week.

And I just loved babies. It was all about babies.

Emily: And they loved you.

Lynsi: Apparently so. Because I really feel like they selected me to do this, that. This.

Emily: Tell me more about that. Like, how did that happen? What did that feel like? Like I really want to know. Like, what actually happened?

Lynsi: Yeah. Well, I had my one son, and I had just gotten pregnant with him, and my father died, and he died in my arms, and it was horrible. And, you know, it was.

I was just devastated. And of course, my baby got doused in cortisol and, you know, all of that. It was.

But I was. I was so grateful that I was able to carry that pregnancy through because I had just found out I was probably six weeks, because back then it took longer to find out.

So then I had him, and I was. That was it. I was having that baby, and I wasn't supposed to be having another one. A few years later, the spirit baby came to me and said, I'm coming to you.

I'm a boy and my name is Dylan. And I said, well, I'm not having another baby.

Emily: Wait a minute. Timeout. He came to you how? Like, in a dream, in a meditation.

Lynsi: Just showed up. Just in my head doing my everyday thing. There's this baby just came in.

Emily: You were like, hey, yeah, wasn't a.

Lynsi: Dream, wasn't anything in. I don't know, wasn't doing anything specific.

And he showed up.

I was, you know, kind of eye raised. Right. Oh, my gosh. What?

Like I said, I wasn't supposed to have another baby. In fact, my ex husband, he was my husband at the time, had had a vasectomy. So I'm like, you okay, baby?

What are you talking about?

And so anyway, as I, you know, long story short, I mentioned it to him, and we ended up having the vasectomy reversed. And then all these other things were happening in the meantime.

Then that had to get put on hold because we got picked up. We lived in Canada. We got picked up and dropped into just outside of Atlanta, Georgia.

It was just so different. I mean, it was just so unexpected. And everything changed. Like the tower card from the Tarot. Oh, my goodness. It's like I could add a pack of tower cards the way that happened.

So we had to put it on hold because, you know, everything was totally different and shifted and we had to, you know, paperwork and red tape and all of these other things.

And in the meantime, I found a spiritual group there because I'd had one where I was, and I'd had to pick up and leave it because, you know, we didn't have Zoom.

This is 1993. We didn't have all of these options we have now. And I found a group, and I started doing this spiritual work.

And the baby had already come to me. Like, that had already been a year or more before.

And then I ended up doing Reiki through her, which I'd never heard of. She hadn't actually been trained in it when I started working with her. So it was all of these things were being brought to me, and I started doing this meditation.

And meditation and hypnosis are similar in some ways. It's just that hypnosis has more tools that you can, like, utilize deliberately, like, I want to go after this, or I want to help relieve this or that kind of thing.

And a guide came to me. So we had done a hypnosis journey or meditation journey in the class to connect with our guides, and I connected with mine. And we were practicing at home when we were using automatic writing.

And my. My guy was just giving me one. One word, One word. All the other guides were giving my, you know, my classmates pages of information. My guide's giving me one word.

I eventually got three altogether. But this turned out to be a formula for bringing. Helping to bring these babies through.

But I didn't know that. So it's kind of like all of looking at this is sort of a hindsight thing, right?

And so. So my guide gave me the three words. Meditate, listen, and trust. And there. There were weeks in between each one, and so meditate. So I ended up writing a book called the Three Keys to Conception based on those three keys.

And I actually sectioned the book into Meditate, Listen, Trust to explain those and how. How they fit with the spirit babies and with pregnancy and with parenthood and, oh, my gosh, with all of this.

But meditate is not necessarily literal meditation. So it could be. Could be seated meditation, guided meditation, transcendental, you know, whatever, but also taking a walk in nature, also, you know, soaking in a bath, you know, just taking some quiet, shutting down the noise, the screens, any of that.

Also, hypnosis, an energy state that you get in when you do acupuncture or some of these other other modalities. You know, all of that counts.

And once we do that. But this is something we need to have every day. The big thing, though, is we don't have to do it for a half an hour every day or an hour every day.

Or at sunrise and sunset or anything like that. That's really huge because this is where I've seen people derailed. They want to do that, and then they have trouble. Okay.

Emily: And it's getting more into that masculine check off the list.

Lynsi: Yes, exactly. That's exactly. And I'm supposed to quiet my mind, and my mind is not quiet. And great thing about hypnosis, your mind can talk all at once. You know, it doesn't matter at all.

And we're working with the subconscious mind. So that's like. That's a big thing. That's a big difference. And what's. What's been so helpful for people I've worked with is they've had.

If they've had difficulty with meditation, it's typically because they have a fast mind and there is a lot going on. And there's that perfectionistic part that wants to do everything right.

And if you're trying to do everything right, you're not actually getting the benefit of a guided meditation so much as you're, you know, again, checking the boxes. Right.

So that was the big thing with that key. But the more that you implement that, and even if it's only for a minute or two every day, you do want to do it every day if you possibly can.

It's not the end of the world if you can't. But a minute or two every day is far better than a half an hour once a month, once every seven weeks, twice in one day, you know, and then, you know, really sporadic.

And then once we do that, then the listen key comes into play, because then we can hear.

Because so often, you know, the listening issue is people don't listen.

You know, somebody. Somebody's talking to you and you're formulating your response, but you're not really listening. Not you personally, but often we do that. And, you know, we're so busy thinking about what we're going to say or what that.

That we don't truly listen. We do that to ourselves.

Emily: Right. I mean, this weaves in the whole intuition part.

Lynsi: Yeah.

Emily: Intuition is literally everything. And I'm sure trust comes right next.

Lynsi: Next. This comes right in.

Absolutely. Because, you know, with birth, it is so intuitive. And you really, if you can be tuned in. Oh, my gosh. But when we're trying to regulate something too much, that's what takes us out of our intuition.

Infertility damages intuition because there's so much fear. And I. I would say birth as well, because there's a lot of fear out there. And then we can't really hear our intuition because fear, I always say fear masquerades as intuition.

And it's loud though. Oh my gosh. And it's yelling at us and we're scared and then we can't, you know, the fear is going, if you don't do this before you're 40, if you don't do this and then you're rushing and jumping.

This is the only clinic that can take me and this is the only. And I have to do it this way and they won't, you know, and jumping in because of fear, which is non intentional.

Emily: Right. And usually there's some kind of like physiological response when there's fear. You know, whether it's like racing hard or stomach upset or just something with intuition. It's, it is more of, of a calm knowing, there's a peace with it.

Lynsi: Yeah. Oh yeah, no, absolutely, yeah. When we have that, that whole fear, oh my gosh, we were not meant to conceive babies or birth babies when we're running from a tiger.

It just isn't a good idea at that time. But the way that fight or flight response is created is to deal with short term threats. And we don't live in short term threats now.

We have sometimes have them, but we live in a lot of ongoing threat.

And so, you know, you're getting it with the traffic, you're getting it with listening to social media, you're getting it, you know, wherever.

There's too many opinions out there now because we hear so much, you know, we're reading, we're googling things, we're reading things and everything's conflicting. But that causes stress. So then we have that almost like non stop fight or flight going.

And so that interferes with healthy birth or peaceful birth and with conception.

Emily: So then trust, say a few words on that.

Lynsi: Right. So then it's trust because now you're, you're tuning in, you're listening. Now you can hear.

Now you can hear. Oh, you know what? I think it would be okay for me to do ivf, but not because, oh my God, I better do IVF or no, I feel like this natural.

Yeah, I feel like that's the way it's going to be. I need, this is what I need to pursue and then to be able to trust it because you know, it is your intuition and oftentimes, you know, perfectionist type A achievers are going to question their intuition even when they do start accessing it.

But, but, but the more that you do that and practice that, the more it becomes, I Mean, it is second nature. It's first nature. Now we step out of it because we're, we're trained out of it, you know, right from, you know, right from birth, practically, in, at least in families, in the average family, you know, not the ones that are.

You do the things, types of things that you do or that I do, but they're trained out of it. So it's hard to trust because there's fear. And so we think we're trusting, but we're not.

If that makes sense.

Emily: Oh, it makes so much sense. So much sense. And I feel like these three keys kind of lead into what I've heard you say about these particular spirit babies that are coming in with the world.

As fucked up as it is right now, it's just intense here on Earth right now.

But also what I was hearing you speak about, and I'm sure you will hear in a moment, was these women that are, like, older and myself, I'm 39, and I do feel that there's another baby.

Whether or not they're gonna come in or not, I'm not sure. But us women that are older and like, dealing with all of this going on right now and all of these initiations that we are experiencing here on planet Earth and these babies that are coming in with their specific purpose, but us, this is purposeful, what we're going through.

Lynsi: Oh, yeah.

Emily: So, yeah, let's go ahead and let's invite in the little Pink Starlights.

Lynsi: Oh, for sure. You know, when I worked with spirit babies, I, I, I'm not one for really putting anything, like, labeling anything, so spirit babies or energetic babies or whatever you want to call them.

This, this, if it was just a feeling that you have a baby, I mean, whatever you want to call it, it's there.

And I just, you know, worked along with that. And things evolved and shifted and changed. And then around 2016, I started becoming aware that I was working with a certain kind.

Sometimes it's hard to explain this. Like, there's just not enough words in the human language, but that they have their own type or their own cohort or their own group or.

And they call themselves the Pink Starlights.

So people may be familiar with Indigos and Crystal children. And, you know, there was a lot of different.

I guess there was information, a lot of information out there. And Indigo in particular sort of became a household word.

I actually didn't like that whole Indigo children journey or whatever you want to call it, because it just felt to me like it had been hijacked from what it was supposed to be.

And people were using it as an excuse, actually, for not parenting their children.

Because you did have that. There was a real. There was a time when people would not in. In going. Absolute opposite of, you know, how children were treated, where they couldn't be seen and had to be seen, not heard, that kind of thing.

And then it was, oh, the child runs the show. The child doesn't want to go to bed, so we don't go to bed. The child wants to get in the car and Dr.

To, I don't know, four different McDonald's to get this particular toy. That's what we do.

And that's just not helpful. You know, children's brains are developing. They cannot. They are not capable of making the decisions, of being in charge and so much.

Emily: Boundaries.

Lynsi: Yeah, they need boundaries. They need structure. And what was happening as we were seeing this, like, absolute.

No structure, no boundaries. Know that word. Discipline. Discipline is not punishment. Discipline in the terms of we have to discipline ourselves to get up at whatever time to get to work, if that's what we have to do.

Right. I mean, that's part of life. So structure. But none of that was happening in a lot of cases. And they were. A lot of women had picked up the term indigo.

Oh, well, I can't, because my child's an indigo, and it's no indigo. There is an energetic explanation for indigos, and they came through to start breaking down constructs that we've had that are no longer helpful.

Old paradigms.

They had to be, you know, they had to be tough. They had to go in and. And, you know, start rebuilding things, start knocking things down and shake it up.

Yeah, and usually indigos came in, you know, 60s into the 80s, but very much into dysfunction and, you know, where they had to be tough, where they had to take care of themselves or they had to challenge, they had to rebel in some cases.

But this isn't about the child won't go to bed because you never put them to bed. And now he's 10, and he won't go to bed. Right. That's not what that means, to be an Indigo.

So I stayed away from that as much as I could, but eventually it came to find me.

And one of my clients, as I was seeing the spirit babies, I used to sense them, and then I started to see them. And one day she was in my office, and she had this indigo energy from her, you know, shoulder down to her elbow.

And, you know, I learned how to see auras. And sometimes I do, sometimes I don't But I was curious because one of my earlier teachers had told me that the different colors in the different locations mean different things.

So I thought, hmm, what does it mean to have indigo on your shoulder? Like, from your shoulder to your arm to your elbow? And all I could find as I did my searches was Indigo Children stuff.

And I'm like, okay. So I started reading into it, and that's when I found out so much more about the whole spiritual aspect and the energetic aspect, and that it wasn't like that this buzzword thing that had happened was just not even related, you know?

So I'm like, okay, well, okay, here's Indigo Children find out that I'm actually one or an Indigo adult at this point. There's a quiz. Oh, my gosh.

There's a quiz.

Emily: Well, if we're talking rebels, shakers and movers, I may be, too. I was born in 85. I don't know if that.

Lynsi: Probably so. Probably so. I just. A friend of mine from high school, actually, something just. I don't know why I've known him so many years. But the other was a couple of weeks ago, I said, oh, my gosh, are you in Indigo?

And he's like, what's that? And I sent him the quiz. He's like, it's not a bad thing. It's just an amazing thing. When you see it, it's really something.

So, yeah, you. I wouldn't doubt it at all. There's a toughness or, you know, a little bit more of a outspokenness, I guess you could say, than there is with.

With the pink starlights that are coming through now. And it's not that they're Airy Fairy, which is not, you know. You know what I mean when I.

Emily: Say that, you know, tell me the pink star light. What? Tell me what that means.

Lynsi: Yeah. So these babies started to let me know that they were different because I never. Even after learning all the Indigo stuff, I didn't be like, oh, this was an Indigo, and this was this and this.

Emily: I'm with you. I'm not one to label, but there are different energetic imprints on all living things.

Lynsi: Yes, absolutely. And there is a fun part to it, too, that where you just. Oh, my gosh.

So these babies decide that they want a name. And I was talking to my longtime friend. We call each other Witchy Sisses, my soul sister. And when I talk to her, she's.

She's very psychic. And when the two of us talk, that energy just elevates even more. So. So when I was talking to her on the phone, and then I mentioned something about them, and then they started talking to her and then to both of us.

And they were like, we want our own name. We want our own name. We are. And I'm like, oh, what?

So that came through to me. That did come. Not in meditation per se, but as I was doing hypnosis for clients is how this ended up. How I ended up figuring out that this was supposed to be their name.

And pink. So they chose pink for the color of unconditional love.

And they're of a very high frequency love, very high frequency, very filled with compassion and lighter than what we've been able to have here up until more recently. And then starlight, because starlight is absolutely brilliant.

And they wanted to draw on or. Or emphasize the brilliance of the light. So these high frequency, high levels of light and love that they're bringing through. So that's where they came up, I guess, with that name.

There's also some interesting information. I don't know much about it, but there's definitely some information about us being made of stardust and. And things like that, which I thought as I saw some of these things later down the road, I thought, wow, that.

That makes sense. So that's interesting.

So that's where that name came from. And so it's my understanding at this point that, you know, we have a lot of dense energy on the earth and we have a lot of turmoil and we have a lot of upset happening, like those paradigms are crashing.

So good job, Indigos. That. That out of balance masculine is being shifted. So we're bringing in the, I guess the balance levels of masculine and feminine energies, and we need both.

So we've had this patriarchy and nothing against men, like it's. But it's this out of balance masculine. So this patriarchy that has to come down and you can see it's fighting for its life right now.

The claws. Oh, my goodness. And then we don't need a matriarchy. We need the balance.

We need that alchemy of, you know, that balance.

Emily: Yes.

Lynsi: Masculine, feminine blend.

Emily: Could not agree more. Could not agree more. And, you know, women. Women hold the patriarchy strongest sometimes.

Lynsi: Oh, yeah, no, you're absolutely right. And.

And that's really difficult for women who don't do that to understand.

But we were trained in a lot of ways, if you remember the. The 80s and you know, in corporate America, when the women were climbing the ladder and they were wearing the bright red suits with the 40 mile, you know, shoulder Pads, you know, looked like an upside down triangle.

It was a power suit. And they needed the broad, broad, broad, broad shoulders. And. And then anyone, you know, the man was ambitious and the woman was a bitch. And, you know, all of that was.

Was going on. And that's kind of what I alluded to when I said with some of the women in the hospitals, at the hospital births was. That was coming through.

And I was at a particular birth where the midwife was like, just pushing my client to.

I don't remember what she wanted her to do, but I think she wanted to cash her. Remember, it's been such a long time ago, but she was forcing her, like, let's go, we need to.

I think she wanted her get an epidural.

And then they.

And then they called. They end up calling in a doctor who was like, I swear to God, 90 years old, this little old man with white hair. And he comes in, he goes, okay, so, all right, well, yeah, I'll be back in a while.

And out he goes. And I'm going, what? This is the guy that should be the bad guy.

But then she's supposed to be the one who is, like, in tune with the body, the baby, you know, And I saw this, and it just. I was like, wow, that's really interesting.

So I can't remember. I'm sorry, I can't remember the specifics, but I know that she. He ended up helping birth the baby. And it. It was beautiful. It was a VBAC in the whole thing, but it was awesome.

And so it was where we have to really realize, like, men hold divine feminine as well as, you know, the masculine, and women hold divine masculine, but also that out of balance as well.

And a lot of times when we do it, it's because we have to fight or we had to compete.

And so we have to learn that. We have to learn that too.

Emily: Yeah. I feel like so much of, you know, the work that you and I both do is bringing that back into balance, you know, because that is. That is again, that receptivity.

It's the woman softening into her role and receiving her baby and, And. And also, you know, allowing and surrendering to the birth process. It's just. That is divine feminine. I mean, yes, we.

We need to have like, the strong masculine container, the protection around us, but we also need to understand what it means to be in our divine feminine. When I was pregnant, it was like a vortex that just like, sucked me in to.

I am in my soft era. Like, I had no choice but to Surrender and just receive what was happening to me.

Yeah, because I've always. I've always been more in my masculine mode. So there's a lot of beautiful transitions happening within myself and on the planet. And, you know, these little babies that are coming in, I.

You know, you can just feel because of what is happening here on Earth right now that these babies are absolutely coming in with a mission.

Lynsi: Yeah, definitely. And they're not all pink starlights, but every one of us has our own mission. The pink starlights want people to be aware of them. So they dictated this book to me.

They're like, get this book out there and then get our information out there. And I'm being bossed around by a bunch of little sparkly bees.

Emily: So what is there? What are these? What is.

Lynsi: But they want. The big thing is, you know, they're coming through. They're part of this evolution, this transformation that's happening with the planet.

I like to call them the people because they're coming in and they're the people. They're the babies and the children. They're going to be the people who are the lawyers, the doctors, the midwives, the teachers, the people in charge of the various government branches.

You know, all that isn't going to crumble.

No, we're going to be okay.

We are. We are going to be.

Emily: Some of it needs to crumble.

Lynsi: Oh, yeah, some of it totally does. But we're going to, you know, there's not going to be like, we. I don't understand at this point in time why people are. Not everyone in the world has enough food, not everyone has safety, all of.

All of that kind of thing, because it's. It's not. It doesn't have to be that way. And this is this, this power mongering and this is this out of, way out of balance, masculine that has happened.

Then the pendulum tends to swing, but we need the pendulum to swing and then stay in the middle, you know, and that's just so much stuff to go, you know, into with all of the, you know, matriarchies in the past, you know, million years ago or whatever, as opposed to 2,000 years ago.

It's. It's just. Yeah, there's just so much of that that's there. So the pink starlights, they're coming through to help, you can almost say level the energies or lighten up the dense energies that we have here.

And that's where it looks really frightening because things are crumbling and crashing, but they need to.

And, you know, if we sort of keep Going in a certain way, nothing will change or little changes will happen.

But we need big change. I don't know if you're familiar with a lot of people, even if they're not familiar with the tarot itself, they know the tower card because that's the card that you.

When you see it, it's like, wow, big things are happening.

Emily: For anyone that doesn't know. Yeah. Speak to it a little bit then.

Lynsi: Yeah. For anyone that doesn't know, it is that it shows like a tower, People are jumping out of it, it's on fire.

So it just basically means something big is happening. Big change stuff is. Is being leveled. You know, it's time. It's not a bad card, but it does mean big, huge change.

Like, things are. Things are changing and they're going to be different. So for me, it was. I live in Canada, minding my own business. Boom. You're going to the United States, you're going to Georgia, you're going to do.

You know, you're not going to be able to. This. You won't have that. You're going to do in all of these things that I had absolutely no control over. And it happened almost overnight.

So that's an example of the tower card. Or somebody's spouse comes home and goes, oh, I'm leaving, and got another wife and another family or whatever. Like, really big. Wow.

Came out of nowhere, didn't expect it. And that's really what's happening now, is that big shift.

And so even in the mainstream, people are talking about the transformation and the shifting of the energies. And, you know, even when people aren't into spiritual things so much or don't know much about it, we just know, we feel it.

You know, there's that. There's that knowing that we have.

Emily: Absolutely. It's in the collective. It's. You really can't deny it at all.

Lynsi: Right.

Emily: So these babies you had mentioned before, I heard you say that they seem to be having particular favor for older women, women 40s. And so do you want to speak.

Lynsi: To that a little bit? Yeah. And it's really interesting. A lot of them, you know, they'll pop through every so often without much issue. And to someone who's younger. But usually what's happening is that mothers are going through, like, by the time I see them, they're in crisis.

You know, like, their lives are just. They're devastated. They've been trying for five years. They finished 15 rounds of IVF. They're, you know, emotionally devastated financially, whatever the case is.

Everyone around them's been having babies. They're trying to have their first. And then all the sisters, all their sisters have now three kids. And, you know, things like that or their friends.

Really difficult. Really, really hard.

And the babies call that an initiation or express it to me that way. And it's because we need to raise our vibrations. We need to open our minds that much more and align with that frequency.

Really breaking your heart, you know, things that are really painful and difficult opens your heart, gives you a chance for healing.

People can turn, you know, fearful and bitter. But ideally, when those. When things like that happen, and this is a very difficult, heartbreaking issue to struggle with, and any kind of, you know, pregnancy difficulties, infant loss, like, you know, all of that, that all sort of fits into that.

So even if someone is spiritual, it's like you need to go to another level. You need to investigate that much more. Maybe you need to learn about hypnosis. Maybe you need, you know, acupuncture.

Maybe it's, you know, something.

Natural birth. You were talking with a woman I was listening to one of your podcasts, was just fantastic about. Can't remember who she was, but it was where she was in the cabin and.

And she was really connecting with her, healing her womb. And, you know something, that your average.

Emily: That was karma.

Lynsi: Yes, yes. And that, you know, your mainstream person's not going to think about doing that. But when something difficult like that happens, it changes.

You know, it changes. And we become more open, even if we were open before we come, maybe become less judgmental, because we can be very judgmental. Even when we figure we're spiritual and we're, you know, kind and so forth, we can still be really judgmental.

So it's. It's a really huge shift that's happening. So I know people don't really, you know, like to hear it, but they also understand it, that the infertility is a gift.

And you see it on the other side. Really hard to see it when you're in the midst of it, but on the other side, you do.

And the healing. So these babies are coming through with a purpose, and they're. They're creating a lot of change. Well, they don't have time. So the Indigos came into dysfunctional families and, you know, all sorts of issues.

They, you know, had so many things they had to overcome, and Pink Starlights don't have time for that.

So they need their parents to be supportive or understanding. If you're. If your baby or your child is. Wants to be a vegetarian, you can't say, well, no, don't be stupid.

You have to eat meat. Blah, blah, blah. I'm not saying if they have to be vegetarian, but you need to at least listen. Understand, Right. What is this about?

You know, talk to me about this and let me hear your feelings about it. And you can do this in a way, you're still the parent, there's still a child, but where you're not just belittling them over something like that or, you know, they're really drawn to a certain culture and instead of dismissing it, just being, you know, curious about it, with them asking about that, they want to read and they want to learn.

So they are not in need of parents who don't value, you know, education. It doesn't have to be advanced education, but learning. They really want to learn and share, and they're bringing so much compassion and kindness in to even question ourselves on it.

Like, we like to think, you know, that we're spiritual and we're a loving person and are we always.

No. But to be willing to.

Do you know what I mean? Does that. That make sense? Yes.

Emily: And I had goosebumps as you were describing it, because it's just. I think we all know, like, in our hearts that that is exactly what we need and to understand and to be able to reframe all of the shit that, you know, say a woman has gone through and then to then have her baby come in and for her to be that parent that this baby needs is.

Is really beautiful. It's really beautiful. And it. And it gives me a profound sense of peace.

Lynsi: It's really amazing. And I sometimes struggle to communicate it because I don't want people to think it's. It's like a fairy tale, you know, there's still going to be children. People, you know, they'll have issues, they'll get sick.

You know, there'll be people, but they will be. Be able to express that higher vibration so much more easily than we can.

And it'll sort of be there in. In so many ways. And so we. It needs to be nurtured, though, not. Not shut down.

Emily: Yeah.

Lynsi: Yeah. So that's why when we go through and this is trauma, like struggling to get pregnant, that is one of the most difficult things somebody can go through.

Or having a birth that doesn't. I don't even know how to say that. Not say doesn't go well, but is difficult, you know, where they end up with a hysterectomy or they just.

Whatever happens a little, you know, whatever. I don't I don't want to say little because, you know, they're all. Everybody's trauma is their own trauma. But when it's difficult, you know, whatever that may be, that's.

That's so important. And then that helps us to grow and it helps us to understand and it helps us to heal. And it helps the pink starlights, because you get that, if that makes sense.

Emily: Yes.

Lynsi: And biologically, like pregnancy, fertility, it's biological, but it's also mental, emotional, it's also spiritual.

So there's the part of me that, oh, I want to have a baby and I want to raise a family, but then there's the biological push for it, for the sense of the species.

Right. And some people, of course, don't want to have babies. Great. If you don't want to have them, kudos for knowing that, you know, that's perfectly fine. But when women do want to have babies, there's that knowing that that's what we should be able to do.

It can be really, really difficult to accept that there's any kind of issue, that there's any difficulty with it, that it might not be possible. And then that women are so good at taking responsibility for everything.

So then it really leads to beating up on the self, berating themselves, calling broken.

I've seen that even when it's strictly male factor, there's no issue, she has no diagnosis. It's not even unexplained. It's male factor. And I've seen women just beat themselves into the ground over it.

So some of this, this is learning, you know, and healing on so many levels and then receiving these children through.

Emily: So perhaps in closing, you could speak a little bit about this attunement that you offer, the pink starlight. Attunement. That's.

Lynsi: Yeah, it's funny.

It's just been. They really have wanted me to get their information out there and to help us to raise the energy on the planet. So a lot of it was through fertility, but now it's expanded more and they want, you know, we need anyone who's a lightworker.

You may not realize it yet, and you hear this on a lot of this type of podcasts because people are talking about, I didn't know that, or people used to come to me, but, you know, and I didn't accept that, or it's still in the mainstream or whatever the case is.

So awakening lightworkers and helping to free the energy, because what they've expressed is there's a bottlenecking of energy. So they're trying to bring this high level energy through, this high frequency light and love.

And it's bottlenecking in the sense we don't have enough light to hold all the light, if that makes any sense. That would not make sense to me. I would say, well, if we had light, we wouldn't need light.

But no, that's apparently not the way it works.

Emily: So you're saying more people need to step into their purpose, into their powers.

Lynsi: We need that awakening, we need more light and then that helps them to come through, I guess in a more of an abundance than they have been. They started trickling through.

There's more and more and more coming through. And now as we're opening this up, they'll be able to flood. That's basically what they're doing, is flooding through. So they did give me, I was doing a lot of this really deep meditation, I guess it was a couple of years ago now.

And they, they did give me an attunement process to use for some people that feel like they need it. And it's similar to Reiki in the sense. I only say that because a lot of people are familiar with Reiki.

It's kind of a, a good enough example in the sense that, you know, with Reiki you receive an attunement to be able to bring the energy through.

So with the pink starlight attunement, it's different in, than that. In a sense, the pink starlights work directly with you and they do whatever is needed, you know, to help with the energy, with the alignment, to help bring them through and to also help on, you know, with their purpose in any other way.

And it's, it's really fascinating. I mean, I basically do a little bit of hypnosis with it. I set up, they have me set the room with, you know, certain layout, there's certain crystals that they'll have me use and you know, cleanse, clear the, the space.

I do it online and then what'll happen is I work with the person, I bring the person on, and we did a little hypnosis and I basically, you know, move aside as the pink starlights come through and they work directly with the person.

And it has just been so fascinating the experiences that people have had and what they've learned and they, they connect with their babies, get direct messages or in some cases, they're not even trying to have babies, but they feel a draw to work with this level of light or this particular purpose.

And it's just, I, I don't even Know honestly, how to explain it is profound. It is amazing for me to sit and be part of that. And then after they're finished, basically they guide me.

And then I will finish off the session with the person.

And then, yeah, then I have people just journal for a little while. Or the pink starlights have you journal. And it's just the feedback I've had of what people have had in the experiences themselves.

And then after going out in the world.

And there's a lot of spirit baby readers these days, which we didn't have, I don't know, 15 years ago, maybe 10. I'm not sure exactly, but we used to have psychics.

And somebody say this psychic told me, I'm having a boy or a girl or three kids. But now we actually have readers, which is really neat and interesting.

And it's funny because the pink starlights have started to sort of branch out and show up in people's readings where they weren't seeing them before.

I don't know exactly how that works from. From their side of it. I know some, you know, spirit baby readers, but it's just interesting how they interpret because as mediums or channelers or psychics or whatever, even with our intuition, we all interpret different, differently or receive differently.

But they're really wanting that awakening for someone who might be, let's say someone who works with babies, a midwife, a doula, let's say a teacher that may encounter pink starlights but not be raising them, but still have that influence and have that knowing.

Emily: So how might someone know that their baby is a pink starlight baby?

Lynsi: Typically, they will resonate with this.

That's usually a sign. It resonates. You can look on my. There's a pink starlight page on my website. You can look there and I talk about how to know. But there's quite a few different things that you can look at and see what might like is, you know, not really a quiz, but some.

Some ideas of. Of how this might be something that's going on for you. But really it boils down to, does this resonate with you? Does that sound ridiculous? Does it sound.

Does it sound. Oh, that's nice. You know, does it. Does it sound. And. Oh, my gosh, wow.

And that tends to be.

And I find these days that that's who I end up aligning with is people that are in. In that alignment with pink starlights and they may already have pink starlights that they don't know about or don't realize, and then they hear me talk about them.

And say, oh my gosh, I have a pink starlight. And the lady that started this is hilarious, but her name's Bailey, doing my Instagram or helping me with Instagram. And here she has a pink starlight.

She of me. She didn't work directly with me. She did work with a spirit baby reader colleague of mine. Whole other story. But anyway, she as I ended up finding her, I mean, she knew of me but she didn't come to me, if that makes any sense.

So the Pink Starlights, I find, align us with who we need to align with. And so people that I end up connecting with one way or another as clients or, you know, in this type of situation are usually really pink starlight aligned or resonating with that.

Emily: Beautiful.

Well, Lindsay, this has been just a fascinating conversation, very much so. Thank you for your time. I'd love if you would share about the names of your books, your website where people can find you, where people can work with you.

Go ahead, share it all.

Lynsi: It's so funny. I'm in the midst of changing my Instagram handle and I don't know what it's going to be yet, but right now it's hypnofatality.

Emily: Well, whatever it turns out to be, I'll link it in the show notes.

Lynsi: We'll find it. It's so funny because the babies are telling me you got to step away from hypno fertility in the sense that it's not. It's not your identity. It's not.

And really, they're really having me shift this where it's something I offer but not something that almost that I am because I've been so long for it for so long.

So we're trying to come up with, if you have any ideas, trying to come up with something to express this in a way that, you know, makes sense. But anyway, it's hypnofertility.

Same with the website, hypnofertility.com

My books are available on Amazon.

The first one is it's Conceivable Hypnosis for Fertility. The second one is the Three Keys to Conception Pregnancy Against All Odds. And then the third one is the Pink Starlights book.

I have my name on it, but pretty much it's theirs. Waiting in the Wings. Introducing the Pink Starlights.

And that one actually has some Pink Starlight guided meditations in it so that people can record them for themselves if they want to. And just another way of connecting in with that energy.

Emily: Beautiful. And then lastly, if people wanted to work with you or someone that you've trained. Is there a way to find them?

Lynsi: Basically, yeah. Basically through the website. Or contact my office. My assistant Hailey can help with whatever that might be.

Yeah, yeah, there's. I've trained a lot of people so it would be, you know, checking in, what is it that you're looking for kind of thing, and we can point you in that direction.

Emily: Well, thank you again, Lindsay. I really appreciated your time here today.

Lynsi: Well, thank you. I appreciated being here. It was really an interesting conversation and it's always fun to see where they go.

Emily: I know. Thank you very much for doing the organic flow with me.

Lynsi: Oh, I love it. I appreciate it. Thanks for your podcast. This is just amazing and so good, so good. I've. I've already sent it to so many people.

Emily: Oh, well, I appreciate hearing that. Yes, yes. I am now recording season three and it'll be out probably December, November. December.

Lynsi: Awesome. That. That is so. That's so great. You're just really doing such important work and I appreciate you so much. Thank you.

Emily: Thank you for listening through to the end. I do hope you found good medicine in today's episode and that it encourages your own soul evolution. I have a few new offers, both in person and virtual, that I'd like to tell tell you about.

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